Some people get lost for so long, they forget what it was like to be themselves.
How many times in the day are you being someone other than you? Your being the Mom or Dad, your being the teacher, your being the friend, your being the spouse or lover. And in all these things you are being, how much 'you' is in them. Because for each one, you must act and react accordingly. When do you just get to be and do you? When can you just shout you NO I WON'T! or HERE I AM! Find you "me time" in everyday and carve out your niche in the maze of life where you resides.